Spanking Survey, Part 12

This post is a continuing series of spanking survey questions, now moving to questions about spankings as an adult. Previous parts are here: one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven.

What spanking phrases turn you on?

This is a long list! Honestly, a lot of them do. Here are the type of thing that I love to hear or read in spanking stories. Many of these come from fetishes on Fetlife.

“A brat I know is going to shed tears tonight.”

“Am I ever going to have to spank you like this again?”

“Am I getting through to you yet?”

“Am I going to have to restrain you?”

“And why are you being punished little girl?”

“Answer me, young lady.”

“Are you beginning to regret your misbehavior?”

“Are you ever going to do that again?”

“Are you sassing me, young lady?”

“Are you trying to earn a spanking?”

“Ask me politely for your spanking.”

“Behave or you are going to get a harder spanking.”

“Behave or you are going to get a longer spanking.”

“Come here. I said, come here.”

“Count out the licks of the belt/paddle and thank me for each one.”

“Did I tell you that you could pull your panties up?”

“Do as you’re told, young lady, or else.”

“Do I need to pull your panties down and warm your bottom up?”

“Do I need to spank your bottom, little girl?”

“Do I need to start spanking with the wooden spoon again?”

“Do I need to use the backside of your hairbrush on you?”

“Do we need to do this again at bedtime?”

“Do we need to do this every day for a week?”

“Do you need a reminder?”

“Do you need a spanking, young lady?”

“Do you need an attitude adjustment?”

“Do you need another spanking again already?”

“Do you want a spanking, young lady?”

“Do you want another spanking, young lady?”

“Do you want me to bring your mother/sibling/friend/grandparent in here to watch me spank you?”

“Do you want me to take my belt off?”

“Do you want me to take you into the bathroom at the restaurant and pull down your panties for a spanking?”

“Do you want me to use your hairbrush for its other job?”

“Don’t ‘But Sir…’ me. You had your chances already. It’s spanking time.”

“Don’t push me too far, young lady, unless you want to pay the consequences. I promise they won’t be fun.”

“Don’t push your luck young lady!”

“Enough. Now come here.”

“Get in the backseat of the car, young lady. I’m going to be pulling your panties down for a spanking here and now. When we get home, you’re going to get another.”

“Go get my belt.”

“Go get ready for bed because after your spanking, you are going to be crying yourself to sleep tonight.”

“Go get your hairbrush and not another word unless you don’t want to sit for a week.”

“Go get your hairbrush.”

“Go stand/sit in the corner with your panties down until I decide you are ready for your spanking.”

“Go to your room and wait for me. NOW.”

“Have I made myself clear, young lady?”

“How many times am I going to have to spank you today?”

“I didn’t ask you. I told you.”

“I didn’t forget about your spanking, little girl. Now get over here so I can give you what you earned.”

“I didn’t raise you that way.”

“I don’t have a problem giving you a spanking if you don’t change your attitude.”

“I don’t think you’re really sorry yet.”

“I don’t want to spank you, sweetheart, but it’s my duty as your Dom. I have to do what’s best for you, and what’s best for you right now is a good, hard spanking on your bare bottom to teach you a lesson.”

“I know it hurts. That’s the point. Spankings are supposed to hurt. And it’s going to hurt even more before I’m done.”

“I know what is best for you, so you need to do as I say.”

“I know you are sorry, but you still have to take the spanking you earned.”

“I know you don’t think you will do it again, but I’m going to make sure you remember not to do it again.”

“I know you don’t want a spanking, but you need a spanking.”

“I know you heard me, young lady. Do as I said or I will be blistering your bottom.”

“I know your bottom hurts to lay on. You deserved that spanking I just gave you.”

“I love you, too, sweetie, but I’m still going to spank you very hard just like you deserve.”

“I promised you a good, hard spanking and now you’re going to get.”

“I think someone is getting too big for her britches.”

“I will decide when you have had enough.”

“I will keep spanking you until I think you’ve learned your lesson.”

“I’ll make that decision, young lady.”

“I’m ashamed of how you acted.”

“I’m doing this because I love you.”

“I’m doing this because you need it.”

“I’m going to blister your bare bottom.”

“I’m proud of you for taking your punishment so well, little girl.”

“I’ve already spanked you for this once before, and now I’m going to have to give you a much harder spanking this time to make sure you actually learn your lesson.”

“If I get to three, you’re getting a spanking.”

“If I have to spank you again for this, it will be much worse.”

“If I have to spank you again for this, you won’t be able to sit down for a week.”

“If you are still making bratty comments, I know your spanking hasn’t even gotten started yet.”

“If you don’t cooperate with your spanking, you’ll get another one tonight at bedtime.”

“If you don’t do X, I’m going to spank you.”

“In this house, you get spanked for acting like that.”

“It’s my job to turn bratty little girls into well-behaved good girls, and spankings are the best way to do that.”

“Keep it up and you’re going to earn a bare-bottom spanking.”

“Kiss the hairbrush and thank me for the spanking I’m about to give you with it.”

“No, I am not going to stop until I am certain you have learned your lesson.”


“Roll over so I can spank your inner thighs and your pussy now.”

“Someone is going to be sleeping on her tummy tonight.”

“Someone’s bottom is going to be too swollen for panties tonight.”

“Spread your legs, little girl. Your pussy needs to be spanked, too.”

“Stay in position or you are going to earn extra licks.”

“Stop squirming because you aren’t going anywhere.”

“Tell me what kind of spanking you deserve.”

“Tell me what you did to earn a spanking.”

“That spanking I gave you yesterday must not have been hard enough because you’re acting out already.”

“That wasn’t a request.”

“That’s it. You’re getting a spanking.”

“The goal is to make you cry.”

“This is your last warning. Next time you act out you will be spanked.”

“Trust me, you will be crying your eyes out long before this spanking is over.”

“Upstairs. Now!”

“Watch your mouth, young lady.”

“We’ll discuss this later.”

“We’ll discuss this when we get home.”

“We’re nowhere near done with this spanking yet.”

“Well, little girl, you should have thought of that before you earned the spanking.”

“What did I say about talking back?”

“What did I say was going to happen if you did that again?”

“What did you do to deserve a spanking?”

“What happens when you give me attitude, young lady?”

“What happens when you misbehave?”

“When I tell you to do something, you need to listen.”

“Yes, it’s going to hurt. Spankings are meant to hurt. That’s how you learn.”

“You are going to be a sobbing mess by the time I am done spanking you.”

“You are going to be sleeping on your tummy tonight.”

“You are going to get a spanking when I get home.”

“You are going to get a spanking you will never forget.”

“You chose not to listen, and now you are going to have to pay the consequences.”

“You didn’t do what I told you to do, so now it’s time to pay the piper.”

“You get yourself upstairs and I’ll be up to deal with you in a minute!”

“You have earned a very hard bedtime spanking tonight.”

“You knew what would happen if you didn’t listen to me.”

“You know better than that.”

“You need a bare bottom spanking.”

“You need a good hard spanking to remind you how to behave.”

“You need a spanking, young lady, and I am more than happy to give it to you.”

“You need an old-fashioned spanking.”

“You were a naughty, naughty little girl.”

“You’re about to feel my belt, young lady!”

“You’re going to get a spanking for doing that.”

“You’re not crying enough yet, that’s how I know you aren’t truly sorry.”

“You’re not too old for a spanking, little girl.”

“You’re on thin ice, young lady.”

“You’re writing checks your bottom can’t cash.”

“You’ve been asking for a spanking all day and I am done giving you chances. Let’s get you straightened out now.”

“You’ve crossed the line. It’s time for your bare bottom to get spanked.”

“Young lady, pull your panties down now!”

“Your spanking is not over yet. I’m just getting started.”

“You’ve been a bad girl. Get across my lap right now.”

(continue on to part 13)